The most embarrassing thing that happened to me this week. Friday afternoon the exchange students have this dumpling eating contest, and many were watching. Tung ate like 42 dumplings in 10 minutes, but he lost to the guy who ate 48. They even had a final dual off, a 2 minute speed round to after, and the other guy ate another 12 totalling 60 dumplings... ouch and then he won 1000 NTD.
So I chat with Chan (the nicest 30 yr old Korean dude) and find out he is not going to the IMBA graduation/fairwell dinner party on Saturday. Before that I found out that he had lost his wallet, but then when he found it the 6-7000 NTD were gone. So I thought maybe he didnt want to go the the party cuz it cost 1000 NTD. I try to text message my friend Jinhee, the message wrote" Jinhee, Do you think the reason Chan wont go to the grad party is becuz of cost, maybe we can treat him cuz most exchagne students are going." (just cuz Chan is always so generous when he goes out with us, and really takes care of the ones younger than him) and so I send it out. One minute later CHAN calls me and asks "Why did you send me an SMS message?" I was like AHHHHHHHHH, (I think I wasnt thinking cuz I was distracted by the dumpling eating contest while sending that message out and clicked on Chan instead of Jinhee). My response to him was "Yeah, what do you think of my great idea~~?" (gosh I felt so stupid) Trying not to make it a big deal. Then I explained how I knew the lost his wallet, and he said he felt very touched that I cared. Maybe it turned out for the better, cuz he told me he didnt want to go because he didnt like those dinner parties. So if we surprised him with a ticket, he may have been mad. The moral of the story, never let Winnie organize surprises or things in secret... cuz I will end up letting it out and not even notice... =P hahaha... this became the joke of the night, and everyone had a good laugh... and so did I =)
Something more serious...
Had a conversation with Ankie. We were talking about what I would call her obsession about anime characters. It is not just loving the stories, but about believing the characters exist in their own world. She would care about the characters personality and when she has trouble, wonder what that character in the story would do in her situation. The characters would therefore make an influence on her life. The character's personalities are very dear to her heart. She then asked me, isn't it like the same for you believing in God? that God is a character in your heart that makes a difference on your life. I told her how when we believe in God, we are having a relationship. It is not just about me thinking about what God's personality is like and changing myself, but God changing me. That there is a two way dynamic conversation with God. The other difference would be, God is real, and these characters are known to be fictional, yet still capture her mind so deeply. It made me think that to the extent that she "loved" these characters, she really doesn't care that they are not real in this world, because she believes they are real in their own world. I cant quite wrap my mind around this concept, because to me, they are just fictional characters, and I do not have to care about their feelings, but Ankie does care about their feelings. Then she asked me, "dont you feel bad when other people think you are weird for believing in God? dont you think that they dont fully understand and should not put you down?" I answered that I did feel that they do not fully understand and sometimes it does feel bad. Then she said thats how she feels when people think shes crazy for loving the anime characters. Hummss... maybe she communicated her thinking wrong to me, or her english couldnt correctly express what she felt. There are characters that she really likes, and wishes existed in real life. I just hope she doesnt get sooo wrapped up in these characters that she does not life fully in the real world. I really don't know what to say, but I cannot be the one that acts like the others that make her feel bad for being the way she is. I do understand her feelings cuz when I was younger I had been so drawn by cartoon characters that I wished they were real, but just not the the extent of her attatchment to them.
So I chat with Chan (the nicest 30 yr old Korean dude) and find out he is not going to the IMBA graduation/fairwell dinner party on Saturday. Before that I found out that he had lost his wallet, but then when he found it the 6-7000 NTD were gone. So I thought maybe he didnt want to go the the party cuz it cost 1000 NTD. I try to text message my friend Jinhee, the message wrote" Jinhee, Do you think the reason Chan wont go to the grad party is becuz of cost, maybe we can treat him cuz most exchagne students are going." (just cuz Chan is always so generous when he goes out with us, and really takes care of the ones younger than him) and so I send it out. One minute later CHAN calls me and asks "Why did you send me an SMS message?" I was like AHHHHHHHHH, (I think I wasnt thinking cuz I was distracted by the dumpling eating contest while sending that message out and clicked on Chan instead of Jinhee). My response to him was "Yeah, what do you think of my great idea~~?" (gosh I felt so stupid) Trying not to make it a big deal. Then I explained how I knew the lost his wallet, and he said he felt very touched that I cared. Maybe it turned out for the better, cuz he told me he didnt want to go because he didnt like those dinner parties. So if we surprised him with a ticket, he may have been mad. The moral of the story, never let Winnie organize surprises or things in secret... cuz I will end up letting it out and not even notice... =P hahaha... this became the joke of the night, and everyone had a good laugh... and so did I =)
Something more serious...
Had a conversation with Ankie. We were talking about what I would call her obsession about anime characters. It is not just loving the stories, but about believing the characters exist in their own world. She would care about the characters personality and when she has trouble, wonder what that character in the story would do in her situation. The characters would therefore make an influence on her life. The character's personalities are very dear to her heart. She then asked me, isn't it like the same for you believing in God? that God is a character in your heart that makes a difference on your life. I told her how when we believe in God, we are having a relationship. It is not just about me thinking about what God's personality is like and changing myself, but God changing me. That there is a two way dynamic conversation with God. The other difference would be, God is real, and these characters are known to be fictional, yet still capture her mind so deeply. It made me think that to the extent that she "loved" these characters, she really doesn't care that they are not real in this world, because she believes they are real in their own world. I cant quite wrap my mind around this concept, because to me, they are just fictional characters, and I do not have to care about their feelings, but Ankie does care about their feelings. Then she asked me, "dont you feel bad when other people think you are weird for believing in God? dont you think that they dont fully understand and should not put you down?" I answered that I did feel that they do not fully understand and sometimes it does feel bad. Then she said thats how she feels when people think shes crazy for loving the anime characters. Hummss... maybe she communicated her thinking wrong to me, or her english couldnt correctly express what she felt. There are characters that she really likes, and wishes existed in real life. I just hope she doesnt get sooo wrapped up in these characters that she does not life fully in the real world. I really don't know what to say, but I cannot be the one that acts like the others that make her feel bad for being the way she is. I do understand her feelings cuz when I was younger I had been so drawn by cartoon characters that I wished they were real, but just not the the extent of her attatchment to them.
